相爱的人为什么会分手？这可能是很多人苦苦求索而不得的一大难题。
明明海誓山盟言犹在耳，执子之手的承诺仿如昨日，怎么一转眼就变了？
25岁的诗人Taylor Myers在社交媒体Tumblr上写了几段话，不加掩饰地表露了自己对爱的恐惧，而正是这短短的几段话，戳中了百万人的心,世界杯投注技巧，收到148万的点赞和转发评论。
Her post, raw, fearful and full of regret, touched many people who had experienced the shocking contrasts between the intense, burning adoration of young love, and the cold ashes of realism that remain once the fire has faded.
她的帖子未加矫饰，带着恐惧，充满遗憾，触动了许多人的心。这些人都经历过两种感情的强烈对比——年少热恋时强烈而炙热的爱慕，和一旦激情爱火燃尽后，只剩现实冰冷的灰烬。
一起来看看她的原话：
A lot of people ask me what my biggest fear is, or what scares me most. And I know they expect an answer like heights, or closed spaces, or people dressed like animals, but how do I tell them that when I was 17 I took a class called Relationships For Life and I learned that most people fall out of love for the same reasons they fell in it.
很多人问我，我最大的恐惧是什么，或者什么东西让我最害怕。我知道他们希望得到诸如恐高、密闭空间或扮成动物的人这类答案。但我怎么告诉他们呢，17岁的时候，我上了一堂“人生情感”的课程，发现大多数人不爱了的原因和当初坠入爱河的原因完全相同。
That their lover’s once endearing stubbornness has now become refusal to compromise and their one track mind is now immaturity and their bad habits that you once adored is now money down the drain.
他们爱人身上曾经可爱的固执如今成了不肯妥协，他们曾经一根筋的蛮劲如今成了不成熟的表现，他们曾惹你喜爱的坏习惯如今成了烧钱的事儿。
Their spontaneity becomes reckless and irresponsible and their feet up on your dash is no longer sexy, just another distraction in your busy life.
他们的真性情成了鲁莽和不负责任，他们把脚翘在仪表盘上的动作不再性感迷人，只不过是你繁忙生活中另一件让人心烦意乱的事情。
Nothing saddens and scares me like the thought that I can become ugly to someone who once thought all the stars were in my eyes.
对于那个曾认为世间一切灿烂星辰尽在我眼中的人而言，我可能会变得丑陋不堪，一想到这些，没有什么事比这更令我悲伤、害怕了。
这篇文章发布后，引起了网友的广泛共鸣。
Taylor完全没想到自己的这篇文章会爆火，之后她又写了一篇文章，进一步分享自己上过的情感课程和对爱情、婚姻的看法。
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